Through a Thin Thread

Uncategorized August 6, 2011 00:05

topic: Monogamy medium: text

By: Carol Sharpe, Canada

I guess I’m stupid. Not knowing the meaning of Monogamy.  I have been having Monogamy all my live. It refers to having only one partner. It is a form of marriage that has one spouse. To be sure it can refer to having one sexual partner. In my time if a man was having sex out side of his marriage he was named a whoremaster.

For thirty-two years my husband did not practice Monogamy. He had lots of fun going from one woman to another. I could sense he was doing something rotten .Why do men and women step out of marriage? Is it the man or is it the woman. I don’t think women cheat as much as men. Do they have a higher drive?

Monogamy is a relationship of family, Marriage, husband and wife. Monogamy is same sex relationship,  non Monogamy, open marriage and Polygamy.

Finally I was smart enough to leave the marriage. I was afraid of catching something. Two of my girl friends ended up in a hospital. Many men transferred sickness back to their wives. Why do men have sex out side of marriage? Is that is a start for getting out of the marriage? Do they think about children? It turns my stomach that men and women do these things.

One evening I met a man with my group. He asked me to dance. He had the most beautiful brown eyes. That was the first night of a relationship. It changed my life. We were so much alike. The same tastes, values, mannerism and temperaments. The respect we had for each other showed in our relationships. Our friends made comments often. We both felt strongly that once respect goes out the door other values start to deteriorate as well.

We never took each other for granted. I know from my first marriage it was an ongoing problem.  John and I never left the house without a hug or a kiss. When we communicated we listened to one another. Selective hearing was not tolerated; we had too much respect to tune each other out. It was like an invisible thread. At times it amazed me. John said the same thing I was thinking. Since I had met him I’ve experienced inner peace for the first time in my life.

Why do men and women have sex with others?

Do you think there are good reasons for this?

Is the wife or the husband treated well?

Are they both abused?

Are they Alcoholics?

Do they take pills or other killing

There are a lot of reasons why men and women run to others. It takes a lot of work to keep the marriage together. Trust me I have been through it all. You name it, I’ve had it.

The Polygamy and bigamy laws in the US: From Wikipedia.  Bigamy is the act or condition of a person marrying  another person while still being lawfully married to a second person and is illegal in the United States. The crime is punishable either by fine, imprisonment, or both according to the law of the individual state and circumstances of the offense.


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